am new to this and need somewhere to talk where i wont be judged. i had an ectopic pregnancy in jan 2010 treated with methotrexate following 6 months of clomid. i since did a further 7 months of clomid with no avail.. i attended rotunda and gt the bll rolling to start iui this month and was waiting for my period to start last month so i could book pre period scan for this month and it didnt start.. i did test and got 3 positive pregnancy tests. shock was not the word. i just couldnt believe it. i had bleeding for weeks 5-6 and a half weeks but got scan in epu confirmed not an ectopic baby fine. was in hospital with hyperemesis for 4 days last week started bleeding again this week with cramping. have what looks like a full period. got scan this morn im 9 weeks pregnant baby looks fine heartbeat strong. but i had to write here cos no one seems to understand as happy as i am being pregnant i am finding it very hard to talk about it. as scan went ok and ive been in hospital husband has told some people but i cant bring myself to tell anyone. did anyone else feel like this getting pregnant after ectopic.. even though i know it is not an ectopic but all this bleeding cramping and dont feel that sick today worries me.. or do ye think i am overreacting believe me i would love to enjoy this and shout it from the rooftops but something is holding me back...
sorry for the rant just looking for some advice. thanks
hi there, congratulations on your pregnancy! It's totally normal to be nervous after everything you've been through, especially with the bleeding and hospital stays with this pregnancy. I don't think you are overreacting at all, I think having experienced a loss before you never feel totally relaxed until you hold the baby in your arms (and then a whole other set of worries starts!). Sickness comes and goes, so try not to worry about that, but if in doubt, don't be afraid to ring the hospital again. that's what they are there for. Best of luck with the pregnancy, keep us posted.
Hi girls! Haven't been on here in ages. Just wanted to share my good news. My little boy entered the world yesterday evening. That's 2 babies since my ectopic in dec 2010. I couldn't be happier. Just shows that it can be done! Hope everyone getting on well xx
Aw haven't checked in so long and delighted I looked in now to see your amazing news Jenn fab wow they are close in age will be great pals:) such brilliant news, I've two kids too after ectopic so there is so much hope out there for anyone going through that nightmare of ectopic, enjoy your little bundle xx