Haven't been on in a little while, next week will be a year since my ectopic - but we are finally pregnant I feel so calm, a calm that I have not had since before I was pregnant last time (long before the ectopic struck - I think my body was trying to tell me something). Anyway we only found out a couple of days ago, so appointment booked with EPAU for just under two weeks, after which point, we'll tell our parents.
I really didn't think it would happen. I know people spend a lot longer than us trying, but fertility has never come easy, so coupled with only one ovary etc,.. I was tired (so very emotionally tired) and had actually given up (you know what they say ....). On the plus side, this is our first totally natural conception, I couldn't face any more poking and the prodding, so we decided to just wing it
Anyway, we're delighted, I'm not focusing on the ectopic end of things too much - we were so unlucky last time the way it played out, that I figure we're due a break (no one is allowed burst my bubble).
I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago about the impending anniversary of our last ectopic, and I told her I felt I was holding my breath, well now I feel I can breathe....
Last Edit: Sept 14, 2014 22:09:46 GMT by sugarlumps
Hi, congratulations on your good news, I am currently going through the process if an ectopic pregnancy but I think it is nearing the end, one thing my doc said was yes there is a little higher chance of another ectopic you have to remember thst your chsnces of a normal healthy pregnancy are much much higher so try hold on to that and enjoy the start if your pregnancy. Best if luck and I hope everything works out great
Congratulations!!! This news just made my day! I'm so delighted, keep us posted and I love your calmness and how positive you feel. I wish you all the very best and I hope you will update us as you go along. xx