Post by sugarlumps on Sept 14, 2014 22:08:14 GMT
Haven't been on in a little while, next week will be a year since my ectopic - but we are finally pregnant 
I feel so calm, a calm that I have not had since before I was pregnant last time (long before the ectopic struck - I think my body was trying to tell me something). Anyway we only found out a couple of days ago, so appointment booked with EPAU for just under two weeks, after which point, we'll tell our parents.
I really didn't think it would happen. I know people spend a lot longer than us trying, but fertility has never come easy, so coupled with only one ovary etc,.. I was tired (so very emotionally tired) and had actually given up (you know what they say ....). On the plus side, this is our first totally natural conception, I couldn't face any more poking and the prodding, so we decided to just wing it
Anyway, we're delighted, I'm not focusing on the ectopic end of things too much - we were so unlucky last time the way it played out, that I figure we're due a break (no one is allowed burst my bubble).
I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago about the impending anniversary of our last ectopic, and I told her I felt I was holding my breath, well now I feel I can breathe....
I feel so calm, a calm that I have not had since before I was pregnant last time (long before the ectopic struck - I think my body was trying to tell me something). Anyway we only found out a couple of days ago, so appointment booked with EPAU for just under two weeks, after which point, we'll tell our parents. I really didn't think it would happen. I know people spend a lot longer than us trying, but fertility has never come easy, so coupled with only one ovary etc,.. I was tired (so very emotionally tired) and had actually given up (you know what they say ....). On the plus side, this is our first totally natural conception, I couldn't face any more poking and the prodding, so we decided to just wing it
Anyway, we're delighted, I'm not focusing on the ectopic end of things too much - we were so unlucky last time the way it played out, that I figure we're due a break (no one is allowed burst my bubble).
I was talking to a friend a couple of weeks ago about the impending anniversary of our last ectopic, and I told her I felt I was holding my breath, well now I feel I can breathe....
